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Craving Connection: The Deep Roots of Belonging in Human Existence

Craving Connection: The Deep Roots of Belonging in Human Existence

In the intricate tapestry of human existence, one common thread binds us all – the innate need for belonging. Recent research underscores the significance of finding a sense of belonging within close social relationships and communities for overall well-being. At our core, we are social beings, interdependent on one another for survival, and the ability to belong is a powerful force shaping our lives.

Millennials and Their Rigorous Demand for Excellence in Brands

Millennials and Their Rigorous Demand for Excellence in Brands

Millennials. Brands. Trust. Three things that seemingly go together, yet each one has its own origin story.  Exploring each one is the task at hand for the next month and a half as we prepare for the Relate Live New York City conference on October 22-23.  How we fit these massive topics all into a 45 minute presentation, giving each one its own stage time, while connecting the dots, threading the narrative through all of them to come away with useful insights and nuggets of knowledge for conference goers will be our challenge.

Millennials, Remember to H.A.L.T. Before Your Next Fight

Millennials, Remember to H.A.L.T. Before Your Next Fight

It just takes one more push and your emotions get the best of you and you become the poster child for one of those Snicker commercials.  However, on the other side the person who has ‘pushed your buttons’ is actually confused about what you got so agitated about.  In many of these scenarios it has little to do with the topic they brought up.  Instead it was a physiological response on your end. Use H.A.L.T. to see where your energy level and if you're primed for a fight ahead of time.

Millennials! Stop Playing The ‘Jump to Conclusions Mat’ In Your Relationships!

Millennials! Stop Playing The ‘Jump to Conclusions Mat’ In Your Relationships!

Do you remember in the movie Office Space when Tom talks about his great ‘million dollar’ idea called the “Jump To Conclusions Mat?”  According to Tom, “It would be this mat that you would put on the floor and would have different CONCLUSIONS written on it that you could JUMP TO.”

Not a great idea, like his friends pointed out in the movie, but it also isn’t a great idea for us to jump to conclusions in real life as well.  When we jump to conclusions in conflict we are putting “2 plus 2 together to make 5” which is never good math and leads to mistrust, communication issues and deeper conflict.